You can't be happy by hurting others sayang :)
Always be kind. Especially to those you love. Put away your ego. It's okay to start the conversation. It's okay to admit your fault. It's okay to show affection, show how much you love or miss them. Tell them how much they mean to you, they can't read mind. At least, you are not going to regret when the chance is gone. You will not :)
Be honest. Do not lie. Lies just will break trust. It's make people apart.
They said the one that love more, will hurt more. Trust me sayang, it's okay to be the one that love more. Hurt more. At least the one that you love did not hurt that much :)
Be selfless. Will you?
Did you ever heard,'Hati kita, Allah yang pegang' ?
Make dua'. Pray. Ask him. May we love someone that mean to be ours :')
That HE put you in this kind of situation, trust me. HE will guide you through this. Trust Him.
After all, kesayangan. We got nothing to loss right? As it's not ours in the first place.
But why did it feels like, we loss something that not even ours :')
Why :)
Friday, July 31, 2015
I'm not ready. Are you? :)
I watched a hindustan movie on prima today. It's a deep, yet funny movie. I would say it's a quite sad movie, or to be exact, scary.
I mean, how scary a marriage life can be. What if, after married, one of us fall for another person? Yup, it's sounds awful, or 'menjijikkan'. You are married, then how can you fall in love with another person. Right?
But did we choose to fall in love in the first place? Nope, I will say no.
Now that many people are in relationship, yet they fall for another person. And trust me, many of us will blame them.
But, my dear. Did we choose to fall in love? Again, I will say no.
Heart thingy is hard to understand :)
You did not choose to fall, you just fall.
Am I supporting this kind of situation? No, I just do not know what is the right thing to do to be exact.
What if, my partner fall for another person? Yup, I will hurt. Mad, sad, betrayed and so on. And what if, I'm the one who fall for another person? It's still hurt I guess.
A norm, does not mean that it's right.
Kesayangan. It is worse if you are married, then your heart wavers :')
Marriage is not something that can be broken easily. And to think how scary it can be, trust me, I'm not ready yet :)
I mean, how scary a marriage life can be. What if, after married, one of us fall for another person? Yup, it's sounds awful, or 'menjijikkan'. You are married, then how can you fall in love with another person. Right?
But did we choose to fall in love in the first place? Nope, I will say no.
Now that many people are in relationship, yet they fall for another person. And trust me, many of us will blame them.
But, my dear. Did we choose to fall in love? Again, I will say no.
Heart thingy is hard to understand :)
You did not choose to fall, you just fall.
Am I supporting this kind of situation? No, I just do not know what is the right thing to do to be exact.
What if, my partner fall for another person? Yup, I will hurt. Mad, sad, betrayed and so on. And what if, I'm the one who fall for another person? It's still hurt I guess.
A norm, does not mean that it's right.
Kesayangan. It is worse if you are married, then your heart wavers :')
Marriage is not something that can be broken easily. And to think how scary it can be, trust me, I'm not ready yet :)
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Boo :)
Emm :)
I read '13 signs he's your Mr.Right' article that I found on facebook. I'm not even surprise that my boo has almost all of those signs.
Feel safe. Know each other's family. Be yourself. You communicate. There is little to no drama. And so on.
But the very first sign is, 'You're happy'.
Am I happy? :)
Well, I don't even know.
The fact that we know for too long, 6 years I would say, trust me I can write a book about him. All of this years together, I saw how he's changing. Change to a better person I believe. And I'm glad :)
He treats me well. He never let me do something hard. He treats me so like 'budak budak' :')
He called me 'mot' too often that I think that's why I'm still comot at this age.
He stares at me with shining eyes, that sometimes I feel like a princess.
He never fail to make me happy on my birthday. On my 19th birthday, he even came to my hostel at 12 pm with flowers and bear :)
He's a hardworking one. He works nonstop. Day and night. Weekdays and weekend. Yet he still manage to wish me morning as he wakes up. He will spend his precious time for me before he sleeps. He hear me. He ask me. To be honest, I rarely keep any secret from him. I would say, he know me the most :)
He's so kind. He's value a relationship so much. Even while I'm writing this, he said that he just got a news that his bestfriend's father just pass away and he's going to hospital at 1.45 am :')
And did you know what he said to me, "It's okay, I'm still can text you, I'm not driving"
He is comforting me.
There is no such perfect person. But I'm afraid, he might close to. To lost such person, I will say, it's a pity.
But. There is just small mistake that he made. He's not been there, for a very short moment. That I'm so upset. That I think, I started to lost. My heart wavers. For those short moment, sometimes I regret.
Am I happy? I do not know.
:)
I read '13 signs he's your Mr.Right' article that I found on facebook. I'm not even surprise that my boo has almost all of those signs.
Feel safe. Know each other's family. Be yourself. You communicate. There is little to no drama. And so on.
But the very first sign is, 'You're happy'.
Am I happy? :)
Well, I don't even know.
The fact that we know for too long, 6 years I would say, trust me I can write a book about him. All of this years together, I saw how he's changing. Change to a better person I believe. And I'm glad :)
He treats me well. He never let me do something hard. He treats me so like 'budak budak' :')
He called me 'mot' too often that I think that's why I'm still comot at this age.
He stares at me with shining eyes, that sometimes I feel like a princess.
He never fail to make me happy on my birthday. On my 19th birthday, he even came to my hostel at 12 pm with flowers and bear :)
He's a hardworking one. He works nonstop. Day and night. Weekdays and weekend. Yet he still manage to wish me morning as he wakes up. He will spend his precious time for me before he sleeps. He hear me. He ask me. To be honest, I rarely keep any secret from him. I would say, he know me the most :)
He's so kind. He's value a relationship so much. Even while I'm writing this, he said that he just got a news that his bestfriend's father just pass away and he's going to hospital at 1.45 am :')
And did you know what he said to me, "It's okay, I'm still can text you, I'm not driving"
He is comforting me.
There is no such perfect person. But I'm afraid, he might close to. To lost such person, I will say, it's a pity.
But. There is just small mistake that he made. He's not been there, for a very short moment. That I'm so upset. That I think, I started to lost. My heart wavers. For those short moment, sometimes I regret.
Am I happy? I do not know.
:)
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